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Start with JavaScript or Python, pick one language and learn it well before adding others. Build a REST API, connect it to a database, and deploy it somewhere public. That sequence, done consistently over 12-18 months, is the core of what backend employers actually test for.
What backend developers actually do
Step 1: Pick one language
Step 2: Learn the language fundamentals
Step 3: Learn how the web works
Step 4: Build your first API
Step 5: Learn a database
Step 6: Authentication and security basics
Step 7: Deploy something
How long does it take?
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